Houston Family Law Blog

Happily married couple mulls divorce due to child's medical needs

When you think of divorce, you probably think of unhappy couples. The last thing that you would associate with divorce is a loving couple who is contemplating divorce for the benefits it could bring their children. Unfortunately, one Texas couple is exploring this possibility.

The couple has been married for nine years and have two children. Their eldest child, a 6-year-old girl, was born with Wolf-Hirschhorn Syndrome. As a result, she requires intensive medial care and around-the-clock care.

The adoption process is fraught with strong emotions

Bringing a child into your family is a huge step for anyone. Those who choose adoption make very important decisions that can dramatically change their lives and the lives of the children the propose to adopt.

We understand that you are filled with emotions at the possibility of expanding your family through adoption. We can help you handle the legal matters associated with this process so that you are able focus on the happier aspects of adoption.

Prenuptial agreements can help every engaged couple

Before you get married, you should consider signing a prenuptial agreement with your future spouse. It is easy to assume that because you don't have a lot of assets right now that you don't need one. In a nutshell, you might need to consider a prenup, no matter what type of assets you have now.

When you are setting up a prenuptial agreement, you have to think about the future. Is there a chance that you are going to get an inheritance or invest money? Is it possible that you are going to start a business or acquire assets? If so, it is a good idea to have a prenup in place.

Your children can benefit from co-parenting arrangements

Just because your marriage ended doesn't mean that your relationship with your ex is over. When you have children together, you will have to continue to deal with each other. How you handle this parenting relationship with your ex can have a profound impact on your children.

When you choose to co-parent with your ex, you are committing to having a good working relationship for the duration of the time your children are minors. This isn't always going to be easy, but the benefits to your children will likely make the effort worth it.

Divorces are resolved in many different ways

Ending a marriage is a legal battle that you have to go through in order to be fully free from your ex. There is only one exception to being able to be free -- if you have children together. Whether you are still preparing to file or have already started the process, you need to make sure that you are protecting your interests.

There are a few different ways that you can handle a divorce. One of these is that you can set the case up for trial and let the court decide who is going to get what and how the divorce will end. This option isn't the most common that occurs these days.

Find ways to take the struggle out of the divorce

Not all divorces have to be battles to see who can be the meanest party. Instead, it is possible to have a friendly divorce. If you and your ex have children together, this type of divorce might be the key to having a good relationship for raising the children as a team.

While you might not be able to take all of the negatives out of the end of the marriage, there is a good chance that you can take steps that will make the difficult situation a little easier for everyone involved. Even though you can't control your ex, your actions might set the tone for things.

Adoption is a beautiful situation for everyone involved

Adopting a child is a huge deal, not only because it is such a big commitment but also because of the difference it makes in the child's life. While you can focus on the legal aspects of the case, you also need to think about what this is going to mean for your new family.

When you adopt a child, you are letting the child know that you love him or her. You are going to raise the child. This rewarding undertaking is amazing and can mean the world to the child. You should make sure that you are taking the time to ensure the child is able to adjust, especially if the child is an older child.

Adopted children often need help adjusting

Life in the foster care system is often difficult. Not all children end up in a home with loving foster parents who care about them. Instead, some come from impoverished situations and are placed in homes that are better from an economic standpoint, but these placements still aren't ideal for the children.

When parents adopt a child who isn't an infant, there are some specific things that might impact the child. It is important that adoptive parents take the time to find out what they can do to help the children adjust to the fact that they now have a permanent family.

Child custody matters are close to a parent's heart

Child custody matters are very close to the heart of each parent. The issue that comes up in these cases is that each side might have an idea of what is best for the children, but neither side is willing to acknowledge that the other side's idea might work. If you are facing a child custody case, being willing to negotiate with your ex might be one of the smartest things that you can do. We are here to help you throughout the process.

It is hard to think about someone else being able to make decisions for your children. Unfortunately, if you and your ex can't come up with an agreement about everything, a judge will have to step in and make choices. This could mean that you won't have a say in the outcome.

What are some ways to make child custody easier?

Transitioning from raising children with your spouse into becoming a single parent because of divorce isn't easy. You are going to have to figure out some different points to make the process a little easier. One thing that you have to remember is that your ex is still your child's other parent.

There are going to be times when you are going to have to work together with your ex. These can be trying but you need to work through it for the sake of your children.

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