Parenting is never easy, but when you throw a divorce into the situation, things get even more complicated. One thing that many people don't take the time to consider when they are going through a divorce is that they are now single parents. Yes, the children may go to the other parent's home sometimes -- but you are alone when they are with you. This means that your new life is going to be a test of your patience.
When it comes to your children, you have to have patience because they are dealing with major life changes. Behavior issues might manifest because of this so you have to take the time to look for underlying reasons why they might be acting out. Once you know what's going on, you can address those and try to help the kids through the challenges.
When it comes to your ex, you are going to need patience because it isn't going to be easy to define your respective roles and make decisions for the children. You didn't divorce your ex because you got along, so don't expect that you will magically be able to agree on everything now. Instead, both adults will have to decide that they are going to act in a respectful manner to make decisions for the children.
Having patience as everyone settles into their new roles can benefit your children. Not only does it help to keep the stress level down, it also teaches them how to respond to situations that aren't always easy. Just make sure that you have your parenting plan in order so that you have the guidelines you need as you raise your children.